Wednesday, January 23, 2013

1 WOW Wednesday - On Failing to be Perfect by Michelle Hodkin

Today, we're re-posting a fabulous post by Michelle Hodkin. The fact that it's okay to be imperfect is something we can all stand to be reminded of from time to time.

On Failing to be Perfect

by Michelle Hodkin

I have a lot of flaws. But the one that stands in my way the most? The one that keeps me up at night, that makes my stomach turn?
I just want to be perfect.

Which is laughable. Because I'm not, and I never will be.

And it's even more ridiculous because I have friends and family and people in my life who know it and love me anyway. Or because of it, I don't know.

And yet. I still just want to be perfect.

It's the poisonous voice that tells me not to do something if I can't do it well. The voice that tells me it's better to not try than to try and fail. The one that told me when I was thirteen that I'd never be good at math, so I should drop that whole fantasy of becoming an epidemiologist and focus on something I could do—like teach. Or practice law.

I'm not unhappy with the choices I made—on the contrary, I'd say things have worked out pretty nicely. But that voice that tugged me toward them—that voice is poisonous. Because nobody's perfect. And it's okay to fail.

You will have triumphs and you will have disasters. You will do well on some tests and not as well on others. You will have good relationships and you'll have bad ones. But what's important is that you experience. That you try. That you put every ounce of effort into everything you do and do the best you can at whatever you attempt, so that at the end of the day, you have no regrets.

And then? You still won't be perfect.

But you will be great.

About the Author

Michelle Hodkin grew up in Florida, went to college in New York, and studied law in Michigan before writing the New York Times bestselling Mara Dyer Trilogy. Her first novel, The Unbecoming of Mara Dyer, was published in 2011 and was a YALSA Reader's Choice selection. The sequel, The Evolution of Mara Dyer, was published in October 2012, and the third book, The Retribution of Mara Dyer, is due out in 2013. Rights to the series have sold in fifteen countries, and the books are being translated into several languages, including Portuguese, Italian, German, Spanish, Dutch, Turkish, Russian, Czech, and Chinese. When Michelle isn't writing, she can usually be found prying strange objects from the jaws of one of her three rescued pets.
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1 comment:

  1. Oh gosh...perfectionism. Blah.... I've been infected for years. Acceptance of ones flaws really is key. :)


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